Living today is, let’s be honest interesting. For many of us we are energetically up one day, and down the next. Life can be a bit of a roller coaster. Each day we have more and more things flying at us than we ever had before. Just this week in fact I had conversations with people on the following topics:
While this list may seem “normal” In each conversation we came to the same conclusion. There is no “rule book” for how to do life these days. What were once easy answers are now more complicated. When do you tell your boss you are leaving and how? When is it right for both parties to do a pre-nup? Telling friends you dis-approve of their behavior.
To live today we have to fully recognize it’s not always our “doing” that will save us. Often times it is stepping back and figuring out how we are to “be” in the situation that serves us better.
Are you navigating awkward in an area of your life? Here are three things to choose being over doing.
Navigating awkward is more normal that any of us want to recognize. Life is happening fast. Rules are changing. We have more options to make us fearful and faithful than we have ever had before. When you find yourself navigating awkward do these three things to become the person mindfully present in the moment to create a better solution. Navigating awkward is about choosing to be kind to yourself first, to the other party second and create a compassionate solution that works for both.
Join me for my fall group-coaching program. In this program we will creates a safe place to explore navigating awkward. The program provides a valuable resource for creating the solution wherever you navigate awkward in your life. Click here to apply.